This is Shannon, Queen B's old friend.
I'll jump right to the point: Queen B and her family have been on a spring break trip to Pagosa Springs, CO. The King began having severe headaches and vomiting that would not go away. They went to the ER, where they were told he had swelling in his brain from a cyst (most likely benign) . The King was air-lifted to Farmington, NM yesterday (Sunday), and a shunt was put in his brain to relieve the pressure. More surgery will be required very soon to remove or reduce the cyst--he will most likely be air-lifted back to the Arkansas/Oklahoma/Missouri area for surgery once further plans can be made.
As I write this (Monday morning), they're still in the Farmington hospital. The King is in ICU, but he's stable, and he's able to talk with B. The Princess is with them--the friends they were traveling with drove her down from Pagosa Springs so they could be together.
(I hope I've accurately reported the timing/medical aspects of all this; if not, I'll edit later in the day.)
I've spoken and texted with B a few times. Her spirits sound good, though I think she's understandably in some shock. She sounds optimistic about the King's health--brain surgery is no small thing, of course, but it sounds as though his prognosis is very good. She's operating entirely on adrenaline and no sleep, in a strange city away from the rest of her family, and she's feeling the weight of the heavy logistical decisions that need to be made in the coming days. She, The King, and The Princess are in New Mexico; their car/stuff is in Colorado; their home and friends and family are all back in Arkansas; The King may need to be transported to yet another location for surgery very soon. That's a lot to manage.
Please pray for our sweet friend every time you think of her today and in the days to come. To be specific...
- Of course, let's all pray for The King's health, that this cyst will remain stable and there won't be any unforeseen complications.
- B needs some rest, so she can think clearly through the myriad decisions in front of her. I'm praying she can find a quiet spot to sleep today, and that the rest will provide her a bit of fresh thinking.
- Pray that the logistics will fall in to place, and the right people will be in the right spot to help in the right way.
- As they decide how (and where) to proceed with the neurosurgery, pray that wise counsel will be given to them.
- Pray that The Princess will feel peace. This is a lot for a 12-year-old girl to take in.
As B and I prayed together on the phone this morning, I was struck by how powerfully God has been displaying His sovereignty in their lives these last several months. La Princessa's story is such evidence of God's faithfulness to direct circumstances in the direction they should go,whether we understand or not. God is good, all the time, and B knows this better than anyone.
I hope she'll be able to check in with comments and e-mails from the hospital; I know your words of encouragement would mean a great deal to her. I'll provide more updates here as I have them.
Praying so hard for her, King and Princess! They have been through so much, I am hoping this is something that happen smoothly.
We are thinking of you B!!!
Posted by: Kellyn | March 22, 2010 at 10:27 AM
Praying for all of you!
Posted by: Jessie | March 22, 2010 at 10:27 AM
Prayers, and lots of them.
Not much more I can say!
Posted by: goofdad | March 22, 2010 at 10:29 AM
I hope everything goes well. I just stopped here from Rocks in My Dryer. If it helps any, I know this is horribly scary, but my brother just had a huge benign tumor removed. It was wrapped around his brain stem and required 31 hours of surgery! It was unbelievable, but he is doing so well, it is nearly miraculous. Brain surgery is serious and scary, but they can do such amazing things now. I'll pray for your family.
God bless.
Posted by: Sara | March 22, 2010 at 10:30 AM
I am praying B!
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9
Posted by: Jamie B | March 22, 2010 at 10:32 AM
Thanks for letting us know so we could pray, too. Hope all goes well.
Posted by: Christie | March 22, 2010 at 10:41 AM
Praying for each of you.
Posted by: d | March 22, 2010 at 10:42 AM
Thanks for filling us in, Shannon. Will be praying, praying . . .
Posted by: Megan@SortaCrunchy | March 22, 2010 at 10:44 AM
Thanks to Shannon for the information. Thinking and praying for you all.
Posted by: Beth B. | March 22, 2010 at 10:47 AM
Praying for you and your family today that you will feel God's arms all around you.
Posted by: Melanie Harrington | March 22, 2010 at 10:54 AM
Praying for y'all!
Posted by: Big mama | March 22, 2010 at 11:07 AM
Oh stars... praying and lifting you up to the One Who can take my frantic cries for you and make sense of them. Praying for healing and miracles and strength and so much more.
Posted by: Angie | March 22, 2010 at 11:22 AM
Thanks for posting this, Shannon. They will be in my prayers. It's a scary and uncertain time, for sure, but our God is the opposite of scary and uncertain. He'll hold them.
Posted by: gretchen from lifenut | March 22, 2010 at 11:24 AM
oo no! Glad The King is stable! I will be praying for you guys! You were on my mind on Saturday as I was thinking of Guatemala. I will be watching for updates!
Posted by: Lindsay @ Bytes of Memory | March 22, 2010 at 11:34 AM
Praying!
Posted by: Kristin | March 22, 2010 at 11:34 AM
Praying, B. Praying HARD.
Love you!
R
Posted by: Robyn (3GirlsMom) | March 22, 2010 at 11:34 AM
Praying for the entire family and the decisions that must be made, the doctors and steady hands during surgery, and praising that he was back here in the country when all this happened. God is good all the time!
Posted by: Kayren | March 22, 2010 at 11:36 AM
Thank you for the update Shannon. I don't know B at all, but I feel like she's family through all that she's shared with us. Prayers start now. And if there is anything any of us can do, please let us know.
Posted by: Kristi | March 22, 2010 at 11:38 AM
Praying for this family.
Praise you Jesus!
Posted by: O Mom | March 22, 2010 at 11:43 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this!! I will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers.
And thanks, Shannon, for letting everyone know.
Posted by: Musings of a Housewife | March 22, 2010 at 11:44 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that! Praying for you, the Princess and, of course, the King.
Posted by: frantically heidi | March 22, 2010 at 11:57 AM
Praying for God's healing and peace for all of you!
Posted by: Kristen | March 22, 2010 at 11:58 AM
So, I don't know Queen B -- I jumped over from Rocks in my Dryer -- but I do know what a family with a loved one in ICU needs, and I am guessing that the Queen B's friends are reading this and can use the information I posted here: http://adventuresindailyliving.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-to-help-family-with-medical.html
Posted by: :: Suzanne :: Adventures in Daily Living :: | March 22, 2010 at 12:27 PM
I would love to pray for him and the family.
Posted by: Debby Pucci | March 22, 2010 at 12:32 PM
Ugh. When it rains it pours!!!! Time for the castle to get a break!!!!!!
Hoping all goes well and the king heals quickly.
Posted by: Just Me | March 22, 2010 at 12:39 PM